not
suffer
needlessly.
your
heart
has
options.
refuse
to
linger
in
the
pain,
suffering
is
optional.
for me, happiness is born out of gratitude.
in my life, gratitude accesses joy.
joy is a gift that produces brilliance from deep within my heart and soul.
as a young woman, my mom used to tell me that i may not always be happy about my circumstances but that i could be content.
contentment nurtures and guards gratitude.
as women, we can find ourselves in a state of wanting…
to be less sad…
to be more beautiful…
to be more alive…
to attain more of the things we want when we are not satiated from within.
when i find myself drifting in this direction, i have learned the importance of getting alone with my heart.
time for a heart to heart.
i’ve even stood in front of my mirror so i could look myself in the eye, as i would a friend.
i direct my thoughts toward gratitude…
for all that i am and was created to be…
And for all that i have divinely been blessed with.
the warmth of the sun on my face makes me happy but unfortunately summer is short lived in NZ. therefore, i am grateful for warm hugs, an electric blanket, and new warm jacket my daughter blessed me with this week.
watermelon and American style pickles make me happy but are difficult to source where i live. therefore, i grateful for every sweet bite i enjoyed on my vacation last month.
getting along with my husband makes me happy but sometimes we disagree and must work together to restore peace between us. therefore, i am grateful that God brought love into my life and that i have someone special with whom i share my life.
gratitude and joy colors our world with real happiness.
happiness paints our world with a brightness that shines from deep within our heart-the core of our being.
this is what happiness means to me.
it is a gift from God
and i am forever grateful.
how about you? how grateful are you for all of who you are and all that you have?
answering this question with require a deeper look into your heart where your emotions dwell. discovering the answer will lead you toward real happiness. happiness that can not be easily stolen.
i’m happy that you stopped by today!
D
today, reader, i’m going to ask for a favor.
i would greatly appreciate it if you could give me a few minutes of your day to answer a question.
what does real happiness look like to you?
take a few minutes to look inside your heart…
think about all aspects of your life…
when do you feel the most harmony within…
what brings satisfaction to your life…
real happiness requires less than you think…
what do you think?
what does real happiness look like?
i can’t wait to hear your answers!
thank you for the favor! you are awesome!
D
i’m just back from my vacation to the USA. i know the saying is that “change is as good as a holiday”…but there is nothing like the real thang!
while i was away, i had the chance to play with my camera a bit. i found photographing things to be much easier than people…it’s amazing how camera shy i found my family to be. of course, the fact that i love snapping as many photos as possible doesn’t help my cause much.
i spent a week in my hometown of Chattanooga, Tn. the downtown area is so artsy and beautiful. although i was only able to spend a day downtown, it was satisfying to be standing in the midst of a place i dearly love.
my baby boy graduated high school in May and i wasn’t about too miss it! not that i need one, but it was a great excuse for a vacation.
he accepted a football scholarship to Tusculum College in Tennessee and begins his studies in the fall.
i am such a proud momma! i think he was pretty proud of himself as well!
graduation was the first stop on my trip followed by awesome time with friends and family…
no trip home is complete without a few stops at my favourite places to eat….like Krispy Kreme donuts! i did feel bad because it is one of my daughter’s favourite places to stop (and she wasn’t with me…she was stuck back in NZ attending school) but as i’m sure she will testify to the fact that, i didn’t feel bad enough because i didn’t resist the temptation. on my last night in Chatt town…i had to make a late night run for some “now hot” donuts. oh, yum! as i’m shivering away in my office in the middle of the NZ winter, i’m thinking they would be soooo good about now!
my sister works for Supervalu in Atlanta. Supervalu was a sponsor for the local Special Olympics. my family was honoured to volunteer for the day. the gymnastics athletes did a fantastic job and were so proud of their accomplishments. we were proof for them as well. thank you to Supervalu for letting us participate in such an amazing day.
driving around Atlanta left me a little edgy at times after driving for so many years on the left hand side of the road; however, i was itching for someone to trust behind the wheel of their car. sadly, most of them were too scared! my husband thinks they were wise to be.
most of my time was spent hanging out at my parents home…helping with yard work…

playing with my niece and great nieces and nephews…

however, we did make time for a trip to the zoo…my son and i spent a day riding the roller coasters at Six Flags…

and we took a trip to Stone Mountain for an evening laser show. it is a must see if you are ever in the Atlanta area. i didn’t do a lot of shopping this time but Target and Walmart are always on the agenda! Target just makes me happy and i wouldn’t dare return to NZ with empty hands as there would be sad faces awaiting me…and we don’t want see sad faces! needless to say, i did not protest about having to go shopping.

the biggest “must” have on my vacation bucket list was watermelon and American pickles. 13 watermelon and 3.5 gallons of pickles to be exact. i know! shameful. no matter, it had to be done and i must say, i put a pretty good dent in that goal although, family and friends did help me, after all, i didn’t want to be too much of a glutton. i was close, though!
saying good bye was tough.
i miss everyone already.
i am very thankful for the time to spend giving real hugs and kisses instead of cyber ones, talking all day and night and sharing heartfelt moments.
i’m already planning my next trip…five years was far too much time away…
do you have a vacation planned in the near future? i’d love to hear how you plan to spend your time relaxing. so share your plans with me below in the comments.
here’s to great trips with family and friends!
see you soon!
D
There is the most beautiful moon hanging out just outside my bedroom window tonight. Many nights I look up and dream of home.
No, I’m not from outer space nor is home located on the moon.
I guess it’s because home sometimes feels as distant as the moon is from earth. I miss my family. I don’t care how old I get, having my mom or dad wrap their arms around me and squeeze tightly will be a comfort that can never be replaced. Sitting with my siblings, laughing and acting like we are children, is heart-warming entertainment.
I miss my friends as well. Not to take anything away from the wonderful friends I’ve made here. However, I’m overdue a heart to heart or two.
It’s been five years since I last traveled home. It’s time for a visit…actually, well past time.
I’m so excited that by this time next week, I will be among family and friends probably trying to out-talk each other, most certainly sharing laughter and joy and my heart will be singing!
As I stare out my window tonight, I’m thinking, “I wonder how much has changed?”
Most likely, everything has.
Will I be a stranger in my own homeland? Out of touch?
In some ways, the answer to those questions is definitely, “yes”. I wouldn’t have a clue about what’s “in” or “hip” or “trendy”.
However, no distance or amount of time can make me a stranger…for love is amazing -bonding hearts together.
I might, however, end up on the receiving end of a few finger waves since I’ve been driving on the wrong side of the road for the past 11 years.
My driving skills may be a bit rusty.
4 more sleeps!
I can’t wait….be sure to check for photos. I’ll have so much to show you!
D
So true.
A year ago today, I was coming out of a bit of a fog in my journey. As I was reflecting on the places my journey had taken me to, I couldn’t help but think of the numbers of people in the world who may be walking through the fog of life unable to see what was in front of them or where their journey would lead them. I could relate to how the heart reacts and wanted to share a few of the insights I had gathered along the way.
I sat down and embarked on a new chapter in my life by signing up to write a blog. I was terrified. I have always struggled with opening my heart by journaling because I was very protective of the treasures that reside within my heart. I skipped the journal and went straight for the very public, open forum of blogging. I had no clue what I was doing (sometimes, I still don’t). However, I wanted to share hope, encouragement, and wisdom in a way that might help at least one other person in this big, wide world know that they could keep traveling their journey and make it through the difficult times.
The response has been overwhelming. You, my readers, have become an amazing part of my world.
Thank you for taking this journey with me. Thank you for your patience as I have been learning each step of the way. Thank you for your continued support as my life commitments have pulled me away for longer periods of time than my heart has desired.
WordPress notified me that as of today, I have been blogging for one year. What a rewarding journey.
I hope that you will continue to read, find inspiration and hope.
Thank you for sharing this part of my journey and enriching my life as only you can!
D
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