When We Change The Way We Communicate, We Change Everything

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“The biggest communication problem is that we don’t listen to understand. We listen to reply.” ~Unknown “The biggest communication problem is the illusion that it has taken place.” “I know you believe you think you know what I said, but … Continue reading

Ephemeral 2

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I savor the seconds as if it were the final taste.

A last 
attempt to make you 
permanent
in this ephemeral world.
 
Bubbles of hope
light and bright
gleaming with promise.
 
Frightening 
yet amazing.
 

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Ephemeral 

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Contributing photographer, Andrea Lekare, captured a wonderful ephemeral moment. Andrea is my cousin’s daughter from Mexico. Thanks, Andrea.

WordPress Weekly Photo Challenge: Ephemeral

Long Goodbyes

I’m that person who reaches her third or fourth close before finally hanging up the phone.

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I’m that lady that kisses and cuddles everyone at least a second time before boarding the plane.

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I’m the girl who searches endlessly for friends from my childhood on Facebook (where could they be?)

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I hate good-byes…so they are rather long when I have to give them. Summer is leaving me and all I want to do is hold on tight and never let go!

Maybe

I won’t

say good-bye.

See yah soon, summer.

I’ll be waiting.

One Word Photo a Challenge: Mauve

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A Portrait of Nephews

Water.

Cool.

Crisp.

Invigorating.

Fresh.

My sister, Evie and contributing photographer, perfectly captured the relationship that my nephew and son share in these photos. Josh is nearly two decades older than Christopher. My son, mischievous and sometimes trying, loved to provoke interaction but sometimes bit off more than he could chew. He always went back for more because the relationship they share is as fresh as a pool full of water on a hot summer’s day. 

    

    

  

  

  

  

  

  

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(Photo credit: Evie Hartness, contributing photographer)

My Braver Generation

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Before having my children, I was not a brave soul. I told you in my post Lost Puppies and The Miracle of Frienship how I wanted the good things in life but feared going after them. I did not want my children to live consumed in fear of: water, trying new things, living fully, or being who they truly are.

I was not disappointed…they both are amazing.

They continually surprise me with what they are willing to just ‘give-a-go’.

My daughter wanted to join a band in high school so she taught herself to play the bass guitar. I remember thinking, “Seriously?” She just shrugged her shoulders and said, “yeah, no big deal.” Umm, everything in my young life was a big deal, too hard and seemingly impossible. Yet, it was natural to her to just do it. I was really proud of her but even more so, I was happy that she was so brave…braver than I had been as a teen.deeclarknz.com

Last summer when I was home with my family, my son was playing around with my mother’s piano. Pianos have a magnetism for children. Mine have always loved to sit at mom’s piano until the adults run them off because of the noise. By the end of the visit, my son had taught himself to play several songs by watching YouTube videos. He learned to play Frozen because my niece filled the house singing it several times a day. I loved that he was high school football player that learned to play a song for a five-year old. Brave and kind.

My children inspire me.

They show me that fear does not have to stand in your way.

They prove that you can do anything you set your mind to and are brave enough to attempt.

So, I got my keyboard out of storage the other day…and searched YouTube for a piano teacher. 😉

Because they are brave, I am, too.

Cee’s Black and White Photo Challenge: Music